雖然terrible 2已經吾係new topic, 但對我來講要晚晚deal with呢個terrible 2既小魔怪真係吾容易。 次次食親飯都好似打仗咁,我本來吾想餵但係99屋企又會話呢樣個樣,好拿煩! 我發覺自己EQ勁強,好多時99都係度講呢講路,我就發左耳入右耳出功,而家已經強到吾想聽就直頭聽吾到,到佢講完一大輪梵音之後我先um um um幾下,哈哈哈,都不能不讚下自己,嘻嘻嘻! anyway, 而家係99度,佢就話Hannah成日發脾氣,其實佢係發脾氣,但係因為佢知道發完之後佢會有人tum番(即係99),所以咪keep住發囉,無所謂! grandparents 或者覺得佢地喊就要tum下,但我覺得佢地咁做係害左我地,我知我地吾係對得佢地最多,同埋佢地有佢地個套做法,但如果次次做錯事都有人tum番,咁樣佢吾會明白自己做錯事之餘,我地條路真係有排行呀! 我吾係吾想佢地錫佢,但佢做錯野就要話,吾可以成日都橫行霸道,佢而家大個左,成日同人搶野玩,妹妹細,手無膊雞之力,到妹妹大個時真係吾知點算,唉! 要教好一個兩歲大既小朋友真係吾容易,除左要其他人配合之外,父母都好重要。 其實我地兩個平時放工已經好累,真係好想好想好想坐低休息一下,但返到屋企先係惡夢開始,因為實在有十萬8千樣野要做,如果Hannah可以behave好少少我地就吾會咁頭痛。 我知道教佢地要好有patience, 但人到最累既時候往往都好難控制住自己既emotion, 有時佢發脾氣,我就會話佢,打佢手手,困佢入黑房,但晚晚我地食飯佢就係咁喊真係好disturbing, 其實我地都係想安安樂樂食餐飯je..要求吾高,無奈做吾到,唉! 我諗平時佢係99度係因為佢覺得有back up, 就算做錯事,我地話佢都吾驚,因為99總會幫住佢,但吾同佢地食又真係好難,好煩好煩好煩! 其實如果係屋企,佢可能都會發脾氣,但佢知道無人back up就吾會點cranky, 我真係希望有一日可以安靜咁食個dinner, enjoy一下,唉......吾知幾時先會實現呢???
所以決定9月份比佢去讀書,等老師discipline下佢,我知佢有機會仲cranky D, 但讀書係遲早既事,所以我寧願趁佢未夠3歲(因為3歲定80,而我都相信係)就送佢入學校讀書,就算academic學吾到任何野,我都想佢學習同人share野,同人communicate, 聽老師話...等等等等! 希望一切會順利啦,please pray!
Hannah 本性係好乖好smart~:) 俾D時間佢learn to behave:)
ReplyDeleteHannah 咁鍾意玩一定會鍾意返學架! 加油!
btw 你嘅eq 功真勁! 直頭可以train 到聽唔到!! hahaha...勁叻!
佢係好叻,但如果佢叻係D吾應該叻既地方咁就無用啦! 我已經比左好多時間佢,所以先同佢返學比佢學習,希望呢個決定無錯啦!
Delete多謝你讚我,哈哈,我認得DEQ真係勁,哈哈哈哈哈
咦,間學校有中文名的?順便學埋中文都好。
ReplyDelete係呀,佢地教埋mandarin架....我都想佢學中文
DeleteMrs. Wu...妳好有耐性, 一定攪得掂兩個小朋友..!
ReplyDeleteHannah 開始返學後, 又會有好多轉變出現, 努力...!!
其實我好無耐性,不過佢係屋企既時候我覺得乖D,去到99到就以為有人撐就發癲....我最吾中意就係咁!
Delete食飯真係好煩,我現在教緊佢阿囝自己食,睇住/幫住/教住,每餐要半小時以上,仲要捉住佢手放匙入口,原本諗住唔食就下一餐,佢又真係可以下一餐都唔點食。佢本身已瘦啦,仲唔食,煩到死。
ReplyDelete大家一齊加油。
佢吾係吾食,係有D吾中意食就吾食,中意食就食好多,比佢吹脹,好煩呀!!!!!
Delete我成日覺得Mrs. Wu喺blog到寫到幾激都係發下嚕囌,平時應該係個小說話多做事嘅人。我估Hannah一定會遺傳到妳嘅優點(e.g. EQ高),只係依家年紀仲細,喺屋企有主場之利,所以會大膽D,返學後有老師同家長雙管齊下,會慢慢改變! 加油呀!!
ReplyDelete我都希望呀,不過老師係點學生係點我都吾清楚,希望佢會有所改善啦!
Delete你EQ真係好高👍日日做到無停手,人都癲,加油💪
ReplyDelete係呀,真係無停過手,想坐低食餐飯都好難......
Delete喺呢度發洩吓最好嘞,你真係好叻,要照顧兩個咁細嘅,加油!
ReplyDelete呢個平台就係我發洩既好地方,哈哈哈!
Delete呢個年紀真係好難教, 所以我都係諗住等小b返學俾老師教咋...
ReplyDelete宜家好多時小b一發老脾, 我地話又唔聽, 鬧又唔聽, 打又唔聽, 唯有搵老師黎幫手, 唉~
係,真係好難教,我吾係旨意老師會教好,但起碼比佢知道吾係成日都可以理佢,我吾想佢一有咩事就喊,好煩!
Delete你EQ真係好高,俾個叻你XDD
ReplyDelete上一輩嘅教法同自己唔同真係好煩,同埋始終老人家容易縱自己個孫多D,俾佢早D返學適應群體同紀律生活都係好事~~
絕對讚同! 我都係吾想佢要比99佢地縱壞而送佢返學校!
Delete我深深明白,因為我大姑奶個女都係咁,我地又係一齊食飯,每晚都無安樂茶飯食。我覺得最大問題係啲老人家,不斷不斷就佢,唔單只無好過仲愈來愈cranky!返學佢好乖架,但一返到屋企仍然係小魔怪,因為佢知有人就佢呀!我地試過佢太曳,要姐姐同佢返房食,好左幾日咁,你可以試下。hannah 應該本性唔差,希望返學會好啦!
ReplyDelete其實Hannah係屋企吾算太差,佢係一落到99度就覺得有人back up所以吾怕,我真係吾想就佢。 佢係屋企食野雖然吾算好,但起碼都吾會變cranky怪囉
Delete我大囝3歲都好trouble..而家佢當我唱歌!
ReplyDelete唉,真係嘔血...horrible 3 ~X(
Delete好同意啊,"學習同人share" 真係好重要,因為我見巨龍堂兄就係成日搶左巨龍的玩呢....=.=
ReplyDeleteHannah 返左學一定會更乖乖,到時可以做個好旁樣比 emma 添 *v*
做好榜樣真係好重要,因為cousin姐姐就係衰榜樣,Hannah就有樣學樣....唉,好驚變左第二個佢!
Delete我發覺自己EQ勁強,好多時99都係度講呢講路,我就發左耳入右耳出功,而家已經強到吾想聽就直頭聽吾到,到佢講完一大輪梵音之後我先um um um幾下 <- Bravo!
ReplyDeleteDo stay your ground and make sure Hannah knows you don't fool around like her grandparents do.
Is it a full-time preschool? Good luck!
Thanks Lois...i feel great too, hahahahaha
Deleteoh yea, she knows that i am not gonna pick her up...i am the one who send her to black room... so she doesn't play this game with me at home.
yes, it's a full time preschool but i will start her as part time first..
我都agree老人家真係最麻煩的, 所以依家轉做ftm, 其中一個重要的目標就係isolate老人家同小兄妹。而結果係, 明顯matthew乖左聽話左好多!!!!
ReplyDelete唉,你就好,我要搵錢無法呀! 有個老人家湊係好,但真係好多問題呢!
Delete比99 凑就有呢樣唔好,大家方式不同佢地又不會聽我地嗰套。hannah b 返咗學—定好好多!
ReplyDelete佢係我地面前就聽,轉過頭係點我地都吾知,總之就煩啦!希望佢返到學校會好D啦!
Delete返左學真係對佢地有幫助。加油
ReplyDelete應該係,所以決定早D比佢返學
Deletehannah個case, 可能早啲入學都有好處.
ReplyDelete有老師教, 仲有好多小朋友陪佢玩添!
係呀,其實係99都無野做,不如返學學習下啦
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