Friday, June 8, 2012

近況

實在係忙,忙到自己都不似人形,初生嬰兒需要好多時間照顧,而且我自問唔識湊B,開頭真係超級煩躁。上星期都仲有老公幫手,今個星期佢開始返工,真係好似無左對左右手。前幾曰又唔知點解BB唔肯食野,好好好擔心,真係養兒一百歲,長憂九十九。上星期又覺得自己好大壓力而嚎哭一大餐,覺得自己無鬼用,BB喊又唔識氹,唔舒服又唔知點做,想餵人奶又偏偏無乜奶,真係搞到以為有產後抑鬱。老公見我唔開心就同我講無人天生識湊,叫我慢慢學,做媽媽要堅強D,唔可以咁快就放棄,其實我明㗎,不過真係好大壓力,加上同亞媽又有D不愉快,所以湊B呢個任務落係我身上。呢幾日開夜班,負責餵夜奶,最難係要唔好嘈醒人,因為亞B喊時真係爆炸力勁人,有時比佢喊到心都煩,加上睡眠不足,真係辛苦。

又係時候要照顧小公主,下次再談論湊B之苦與樂。

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24 comments:

  1. This is baby Blue. baby blue is normal to every new mom. You can ask your mom to do the night shift, and you do the day shift. Add oil. If you have any question, welcome to call me.
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 17:42:19]my hubby wants me to get used to this new life so he wants me to feed the baby at night. if i get really tired, my mom does help.

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  2. 餵人奶真係好辛苦,初生BB要餵8-12次奶,我昨天上完breastfeeding class先知,o個lactation consultant 講可以去買 herb tea來喝增加奶水,不過佢無講乜牌子,買D Caffeine Free喎 ,妳問下藥房,應該好容易買,如果妳無時間煲上奶湯。佢仲派左一份係教餵母乳既資料俾我,妳需唔需要,可以emai|俾你!又可以打电話妳間医院問下o個lactation consultant 問題,我想一定有幫助。
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 20:28:10]你打算餵人奶嗎? 我係医院時都想餵, 但無奶又累, 真係要花好多心机架, 大家一齐努力

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  3. 加油, 慢慢黎, 唔好比自己壓力
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 20:25:38]盡力啦, 多謝关心

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  4. 你要小心照顧好自己的情緒, 我有朋友平日大癲大肺, 但產後一段短時間, 都患上產後抑鬱症, 話成日喊喎, 好彩佢好快就自己恢復過來.
    湊仔係好辛苦架啦, 不過, 好快你見到BB好得意表情多多, 你就會覺得再辛苦都值得.
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 20:25:00]情緒真係有D波動, 次次諗起生BB嗰日都有D感触, 而家BB已經好多表情同聲音, 成曰伸懒腰, 哈哈, 好搞笑

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  5. 辛苦了媽咪,如真的唔惦,惟有叫老爺奶奶方面幫手,可能妳媽不習慣在妳家的架部,凡事看開些,女睡妳也睡,坐月子要多休息,日後的路還要走的,保重.
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 20:21:14]其實應該OK, 係我想爭取多D時間同女女一齊, 又或者咁講, 我唔中意太依賴其他人, 包括自己媽媽

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  6. 我個朋友個女又係好衰成日都哭, 搞到要搵個枕頭"蓋住佢"
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 17:41:22]下, 咁又唔得, 我多數都係抱下佢, 比D温暖佢, 咁就好D嘞

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  7. Add oil ar... I hope you have already find out the reason of your baby's cry. If you cannot go to the talk. I recommend you to get the DVD, "The happiest baby on the block."
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 17:38:56]i think she cries when she is not comfy. sometimes too hot make her uncomfy and she cries. she is fine when she is full haha. she is a hungry baby.

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  8. 好耐冇係blog見妳啦
    唔好唔開心啦,妳一定得的,加油
    [Oli回覆06/10/2012 14:55:38]
    [版主回覆06/09/2012 17:37:35]嘻嘻, 懶嘛, FB都少上.
    無咩嘅, 需要時間適應, 用左幾個月去適應大肚, 而家先十幾曰, 我有信心凑得掂!

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  9. BeBeinUSA の 矽谷M 太June 9, 2012 at 7:10 PM

    Dont be upset!!! you can fix it & +oil mommy
    [版主回覆06/10/2012 10:36:32]Thank you. It's not easy but will try my best

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  10. 唔好自責呀....BB 需要你呢...加油呀!!! 仲有呀~~有老公陪住你同幫你嘛....一齊湊B 係一種樂趣呢!!!
    [版主回覆06/10/2012 13:58:18]可能心情紧张, 始终係第一次, 不過而家漸漸習慣, 希望生第二個時會湊得好D

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  11. 加油呀,依家漸漸習慣就好了,適應都要時間,我信你得架 ^3^~~
    祝BB乖乖,愈來愈易湊 ^^
    [版主回覆06/10/2012 19:13:06]應該無問題嘅, 係時間長短啫, 多謝你支持 ^_^

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  12. 加油,人要相信自己。最艱難的時期都會捱過去。給信心自己。
    [版主回覆06/11/2012 09:56:24]多謝, 其實好好多嘞!

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  13. I was in Flushing last night, met some friends at the Sunway Restaurant next to the Sheraton..
    [BigDaddy回覆06/17/2012 00:07:44]Lei-Yuen...
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 08:18:41]what is the chinese name of sunway?
    [BigDaddy回覆06/14/2012 05:19:30]Flushing is always going to be Flushing, crowded street, even at night time!! The food in Sunway is excellent, you should try it!!
    [版主回覆06/11/2012 09:57:21]how was flushing?? i havent gone out for more than 2 weeks. i miss ouside!!!

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  14. 喊左出黎真係舒服好多架!!
    開頭湊BB係會辛苦少少架, 一來佢地未適應周圍環境, 二來佢地只有三樣野, 食/痌/瞓, 你慢慢
    留意佢地既喊聲, 就知道佢地需要邊樣野架!! 加油呀新手媽咪!!!
    [版主回覆06/11/2012 10:00:08]係呀, 真係有D辛苦, 不過而家漸漸適應, 都無想象中咁辛苦. 多謝你呀!
    [版主回覆06/11/2012 09:59:58]係呀, 真係有D辛苦, 不過而家漸漸適應, 都無想象中咁辛苦. 多謝你呀!

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  15. Mrs. Wu 不要因BB喊而心煩, 喊是好正常....慢慢來啦 !!
    [版主回覆06/11/2012 14:15:43]可能睡眠不足都令我煩躁, 會努力呀

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  16. 可能真係有少少產後抑鬱?
    今日睇到HANNAH笑嗰幅相,真係個靚女嚟呀!笑得咁開心,你一定湊得佢好好,唔好咁擔心!
    [版主回覆06/12/2012 02:07:48]有少少啦, 次次諗番生仔個刻都心有餘悸, 之後又担心湊唔掂, 不過而家好D啦!

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  17. 學下學下就識,你老公講得岩,邊有人第一個B就識湊。加油!
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 04:53:51]美國無野玩, 唔駛過黎, 哈哈
    [小友回覆06/14/2012 00:58:44]你咁忙,我黎到你都要有時間先得架。老豆問過我去唔去美國玩架。
    [版主回覆06/13/2012 06:09:41]有心不如來ny探我地啦 XD
    [小友回覆06/13/2012 05:46:09]去左旅行都過黎關心下你,睇我幾有你同你囡囡心啊!
    [版主回覆06/12/2012 12:48:25]我都明, 呢几日成日對住佢都熟少少, 希望乖女大D會錫媽媽多D.
    題外話, 你唔係去左旅行咩

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  18. Mrs. Wu,
    -做媽媽,真係要每天學習。我估你現在都係有點唔適應,遲下你揍熟咗,摸熟Hannah 脾性,你會易上手,努力,加油!
    [版主回覆06/12/2012 12:50:28]做全職媽媽原來咁辛苦, 我真係寧願返工, 哈哈, 因為都几大壓力, 不過, 我都依然中意痴住個女, 嘻嘻

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  19. Mrs Wu, 好忙呢...? 忙就好, 這樣就好快修身囉...!!
    一邊揍女, 一邊修身.....幾好呢...!!
    [版主回覆06/13/2012 05:00:52]哈哈, 唔知點解都仲係好重磅

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  20. 加油呀! 慢慢湊湊下一定得既! 信你係個好媽媽黎既 ^^
    [版主回覆06/13/2012 17:05:48]多謝呀, 我都希望係 ^_^

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  21. 母親真偉大
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 04:55:55]哈哈, 多謝

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  22. 唔使擔心架, 唔開心可能係賀爾蒙分泌影響啫, 揾人傾下可以分散下負面情緒; 我家細B出世後都有啲問題, 三個星期左右要留醫, 之後斷斷續續都成日病, 不過轉下眼而家咪又八個月大! BB大得好快架, 好好珍惜每個片段呀, 我哋連餵阿B食藥或者啲 poo-poo 漏到成身係, 都影佢一餐架 (係咪好變態呀, 哈哈)!
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 17:16:48]一定捉埋個女一齊睇:-D
    [AreYouOK回覆06/14/2012 15:40:03]第時睇返你實開心到喊!
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 14:28:40]有呀, 相同video都有
    [AreYouOK回覆06/14/2012 12:48:11]有冇日日影相呀?
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 11:55:40]先天不足? 不過而家無事就得啦! 係呀, BB真係曰曰都唔同, 我都係曰曰學習點做媽媽 ^_^
    [AreYouOK回覆06/14/2012 11:37:51]而家冇事就好喇! 其實寫下 blog 都好架, 冇人喺身邊而又突然諗傻嘢嘅話, 都唔會覺得咁孤單
    我哋而家成日叫朋友有仔趁嫩生架.....可能先天不足啦, 好少BB六個月前會病架嘛, 但係阿B真係六個月前keep 住感冒呀, 濕診呀, 連支氣管炎都有! 肉赤架! 不過望下十二歲嘅大B, 嘩, 眨下眼就成支竹咁.....即刻提醒咗大家, 肉赤嘅時間其實會過得好快, 真係要好好享受每一刻嘅笑同喊
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 11:28:20]噢, 仲有無事呀? 我自己知道咩事既, 突然好大壓力所以先咁, 而家已經無事LU

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  23. Mrs Wu, 加油!明白你的心情,你先生說得對!
    「沒有天生的父母」,當新手爸媽在照顧寶寶方面遇上重重問題是必經階段,慢慢來吧!雖然面臨前所未有的考驗,但只要你願意為BB付出,一定能做得來,支持你!:)
    當爸爸媽媽的真偉大,要湊大一個孩子一點也不容易。在孩子小時候,父母要貼身照顧他的衣食住行,到他們年紀稍長,又要安排他的教育大計?還有他的健康......「養兒一百歲長憂九十九」未有幸當上媽媽的小高也深深體會!
    [版主回覆06/14/2012 17:19:45]多謝小高支持, 其實無論幾辛苦都會努力, BB嘅長大便是我嘅動力, 見佢每日咁成長就係最大欣慰

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  24. 完全明白,自己好倦但都不敢入睡餵夜好真係好辛苦,努力呀!
    [版主回覆06/17/2012 17:21:15]所以家老公出廳訓, 費事嘈住佢

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