Friday, March 30, 2012

Lamaze class


上星期開始上左第一堂既lamaze class, 呢個class係專比懷孕既couple去既, 大約講解下生仔既野,有D咩需要注意。 我呢個class係逄星期四晚上,一堂大約一小時,上足7星期。開始既時候我仲以為係一次過,點知呢間醫院只offer一小時呢D堂,所以我好好好好彩咁岩上星期二打去問,而星期四就即刻上堂,如果我無係上星期打去問,我好可能無得去呢D class啦,因為到7星期後我既due date都快到,仲邊有機會去到。 


so far上左兩堂,我覺得都有用既,因為個instructor係醫院產房入面既護士,所以佢好清楚醫院既運作,都好清楚產婦既需要。 我地個class只有3對couples (including us),不過我反而中意,因為吾駛咁多人煩,又可以問多D問題。 我中意既係,次次臨放學時,佢都會抽D時間同我地做下exercise,教我地做咩動作會比較舒服同令生產得順利D。 

雖然呢個class係要比錢,但我覺得都係值得既。 最尾一個星期會同我地有個hospital tour, 應該會幫助到我地呢D 去到一個吾熟悉既地方而感到驚既人,更加希望到時生既時間呢個護士會係度,因為好似有個相識既人會比較輕鬆D。 


上星期去見醫生,不過頭仔仲未向下呀!亞B,同媽媽一齊努力,仲有兩個月就見面啦,yeah! 

Lamaze class


上星期開始上左第一堂既lamaze class, 呢個class係專比懷孕既couple去既, 大約講解下生仔既野,有D咩需要注意。 我呢個class係逄星期四晚上,一堂大約一小時,上足7星期。開始既時候我仲以為係一次過,點知呢間醫院只offer一小時呢D堂,所以我好好好好彩咁岩上星期二打去問,而星期四就即刻上堂,如果我無係上星期打去問,我好可能無得去呢D class啦,因為到7星期後我既due date都快到,仲邊有機會去到。 


so far上左兩堂,我覺得都有用既,因為個instructor係醫院產房入面既護士,所以佢好清楚醫院既運作,都好清楚產婦既需要。 我地個class只有3對couples (including us),不過我反而中意,因為吾駛咁多人煩,又可以問多D問題。 我中意既係,次次臨放學時,佢都會抽D時間同我地做下exercise,教我地做咩動作會比較舒服同令生產得順利D。 

雖然呢個class係要比錢,但我覺得都係值得既。 最尾一個星期會同我地有個hospital tour, 應該會幫助到我地呢D 去到一個吾熟悉既地方而感到驚既人,更加希望到時生既時間呢個護士會係度,因為好似有個相識既人會比較輕鬆D。 


上星期去見醫生,不過頭仔仲未向下呀!亞B,同媽媽一齊努力,仲有兩個月就見面啦,yeah! 

Thursday, March 29, 2012

自私

琴晚真係有D吾開心,早幾日同佢講話我想買D baby shower decoration, 咁佢都話OK,琴日放工時都講好左,點知佢接左我之後,我話去邊去邊,佢就即刻搖頭,話好遠。 我真係比佢激C我 。 遠?有幾遠?只不過係10分鐘到既車程,咁都叫遠?佢自己跟本吾想去,就比個籍口我!!!我真係好嬲,我都吾知我做咁多為咩? 一個大肚婆既壓力佢吾明白,你估仲可以好似以前咁,只係諗自己? 我做咁多,都係想我地個女開心下,既然佢跟本吾想搞咁多野,咁我就自己做!我吾駛佢幫!!!! 一個二個都係咁,佢屋企人係咁,佢自己又係咁,自私到爆!!!!!!!!!!叫佢整baby shower既favor又吾理,叫佢準備食物又話星期六早上先算,我係一D要有計劃既人,點可以話搞就搞?都吾明點解男人永遠都係咁, 船到橋頭自然直既道理我真係吾明!

自私

琴晚真係有D吾開心,早幾日同佢講話我想買D baby shower decoration, 咁佢都話OK,琴日放工時都講好左,點知佢接左我之後,我話去邊去邊,佢就即刻搖頭,話好遠。 我真係比佢激C我 。 遠?有幾遠?只不過係10分鐘到既車程,咁都叫遠?佢自己跟本吾想去,就比個籍口我!!!我真係好嬲,我都吾知我做咁多為咩? 一個大肚婆既壓力佢吾明白,你估仲可以好似以前咁,只係諗自己? 我做咁多,都係想我地個女開心下,既然佢跟本吾想搞咁多野,咁我就自己做!我吾駛佢幫!!!! 一個二個都係咁,佢屋企人係咁,佢自己又係咁,自私到爆!!!!!!!!!!叫佢整baby shower既favor又吾理,叫佢準備食物又話星期六早上先算,我係一D要有計劃既人,點可以話搞就搞?都吾明點解男人永遠都係咁, 船到橋頭自然直既道理我真係吾明!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

泡影


曾幾何時,佢既一家人打算一齊買三家庭,大家一齊住,但自從佢父母賣左間樓之後,六月要closing, 所以無樓住,係咁成日都去搵樓,不過好樓難求,邊有咁易,所以琴晚打比老公,同佢講第二個計劃,就係佢地自己買condo. 講真,一開始想一齊買有兩個原因,第一,係將來BB可以好方便比佢亞媽湊,第二,我真係吾想佢父母將所有既野都比哂佢細佬,而我地一家咩都無!不過,現實歸現實,佢父母吾錫佢係有目共睹,所以就算我地做10樣野都吾會比佢細佬做一樣野咁好, 咁又何苦呢? 所以而家決定,我既一家會維持自己既生活,佢地想點就點,將來有事無事都吾好來煩我,至於亞B將來比邊個湊,到時先算啦! 


剛剛睇完ANGELA既天淵之別,都有好大感觸。 除左覺得佢地屋企人既不公平,更加覺得我屋企人對我有幾好。

1)我爸幫家姐比首期買車,而
我爸要公平對待,所以都幫我地比首期買車

2)我地而家住緊既屋係我父母比首期既,我父母無介意,仲話如果賣得出,可以當首期買過間大D既屋
3)我父母打算送張BB床比亞B


而佢既父母呢??我都無expectation! 
 雖然以上既好似好物質,但我有左咁耐,邊有理過我?次次打親都係講睇樓,哈哈,真係不知所謂。 而佢媽次次都同我講佢細佬有幾窮幾窮, 窮? 係既,又要穿明牌,又要揸lexus, 又要供樓,但佢媽話佢地因為有兩個小朋友,而佢老婆放產假又無commission,得base, 所以窮喎! 講真,佢地兩個加埋既base, 無十萬都有9萬,我吾覺得有幾窮囉,所以佢地成日扮窮真係好令我討厭!


不過都好,而家吾駛再咁stressed,為左買屋既事,早排真係訓得好差,而家可以話係一個release! 雖然好似無左個靠山,但要我日日都咁吾開心做人我寧願無左間屋! 其實只要我地兩公婆努力D,我吾信終有一日我買吾到自己間樓! 



係,我係好憎佢屋企人,但呢D事只會係呢度出現,我亞B都吾會講,我吾想好似我玩針對咁。
 

泡影


曾幾何時,佢既一家人打算一齊買三家庭,大家一齊住,但自從佢父母賣左間樓之後,六月要closing, 所以無樓住,係咁成日都去搵樓,不過好樓難求,邊有咁易,所以琴晚打比老公,同佢講第二個計劃,就係佢地自己買condo. 講真,一開始想一齊買有兩個原因,第一,係將來BB可以好方便比佢亞媽湊,第二,我真係吾想佢父母將所有既野都比哂佢細佬,而我地一家咩都無!不過,現實歸現實,佢父母吾錫佢係有目共睹,所以就算我地做10樣野都吾會比佢細佬做一樣野咁好, 咁又何苦呢? 所以而家決定,我既一家會維持自己既生活,佢地想點就點,將來有事無事都吾好來煩我,至於亞B將來比邊個湊,到時先算啦! 


剛剛睇完ANGELA既天淵之別,都有好大感觸。 除左覺得佢地屋企人既不公平,更加覺得我屋企人對我有幾好。

1)我爸幫家姐比首期買車,而
我爸要公平對待,所以都幫我地比首期買車

2)我地而家住緊既屋係我父母比首期既,我父母無介意,仲話如果賣得出,可以當首期買過間大D既屋
3)我父母打算送張BB床比亞B


而佢既父母呢??我都無expectation! 
 雖然以上既好似好物質,但我有左咁耐,邊有理過我?次次打親都係講睇樓,哈哈,真係不知所謂。 而佢媽次次都同我講佢細佬有幾窮幾窮, 窮? 係既,又要穿明牌,又要揸lexus, 又要供樓,但佢媽話佢地因為有兩個小朋友,而佢老婆放產假又無commission,得base, 所以窮喎! 講真,佢地兩個加埋既base, 無十萬都有9萬,我吾覺得有幾窮囉,所以佢地成日扮窮真係好令我討厭!


不過都好,而家吾駛再咁stressed,為左買屋既事,早排真係訓得好差,而家可以話係一個release! 雖然好似無左個靠山,但要我日日都咁吾開心做人我寧願無左間屋! 其實只要我地兩公婆努力D,我吾信終有一日我買吾到自己間樓! 



係,我係好憎佢屋企人,但呢D事只會係呢度出現,我亞B都吾會講,我吾想好似我玩針對咁。
 

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

尿片


作為一個未來媽媽,真係要做好多research, 其一就係尿片,未做媽媽之前,曾經去過人地既baby shower, 跟住問左個好白痴既問題,就係尿片有分size既咩??? 講真,個刻真係吾知,幾年前尿片對我來說係好遙遠,個陣仲要比人串,超,我點知啫!! 而家做research, 見到有超多吾同既尿片,究竟邊種先岩初生嬰兒呢??





最搞笑既係,早排見到呢個,哈哈,真係而家咩尿片都有!睇下兩個小朋友幾得意 











尿片


作為一個未來媽媽,真係要做好多research, 其一就係尿片,未做媽媽之前,曾經去過人地既baby shower, 跟住問左個好白痴既問題,就係尿片有分size既咩??? 講真,個刻真係吾知,幾年前尿片對我來說係好遙遠,個陣仲要比人串,超,我點知啫!! 而家做research, 見到有超多吾同既尿片,究竟邊種先岩初生嬰兒呢??





最搞笑既係,早排見到呢個,哈哈,真係而家咩尿片都有!睇下兩個小朋友幾得意 











作病



天氣既突然轉變,由之前成70度又跌到而家既40度,點可以估計到?我又開始想病,唉! 訓又訓得吾多好,可能個肚日漸長大,所以訓到好腰酸背痛,而晚上更加會因痛楚而醒來喔! 希望快D好番,吾想好似渾渾噩噩咁過。

作病



天氣既突然轉變,由之前成70度又跌到而家既40度,點可以估計到?我又開始想病,唉! 訓又訓得吾多好,可能個肚日漸長大,所以訓到好腰酸背痛,而晚上更加會因痛楚而醒來喔! 希望快D好番,吾想好似渾渾噩噩咁過。

Monday, March 26, 2012

來臨

終於都來臨啦,我既假期就由星期六開始,哈哈!

上個星期六早上,同老公去左見醫生,係個度spend左成個鐘頭,原因係...我實在太多問題,哈哈! 因為生BB既時間愈近,我就愈多問題,好似關於epidural呀,又或者係其他事,不過我超中意我個醫生,因為佢永遠都吾會吹我走,我就成日都願走,哈哈! 今次可能放鬆左,又重多左少少,醫生話叫我盡量係8個星期之內重4磅左右就最perfect, 不過我相信重多一兩磅應該吾會係太大問題卦,我都會努力既! 醫生話而家BB應該大約4磅左右,我問BB會吾會under weight, 佢就話BB係最尾個月大得好快,所以吾駛擔心,遲下要去做多次超聲波,睇下BB轉左身未。 亞B, 同媽媽一齊努力呀! 

醫生同我地講有關臍帶血既野,不過真係好好好貴,我地又邊有錢去做咁多額外野?所以都係算啦!

之後就去機場接我父母,真係好耐無見啦!因為要幫我既關係,所以我媽就會留係度耐D,而我爸就兩星期後返HK!佢兩個真係一個願打,一個願捱,我媽成日都嘈我爸,我爸都慣左,吾理佢,當佢唱歌,哈哈,真係兩老.......不過發覺佢地兩個都開始老啦,而我媽可能之前幫我家姐搬屋,搞到好鬼廋,真係要整肥佢呀! 

晚上去左佢細佬既滿月酒,我都有考慮擺吾擺,但係我地又無咁多親朋好友係NY,所以都係未知住,或者一家人一齊食個飯就算啦!我都無所謂,最重要係BB健康呀! 

來臨

終於都來臨啦,我既假期就由星期六開始,哈哈!

上個星期六早上,同老公去左見醫生,係個度spend左成個鐘頭,原因係...我實在太多問題,哈哈! 因為生BB既時間愈近,我就愈多問題,好似關於epidural呀,又或者係其他事,不過我超中意我個醫生,因為佢永遠都吾會吹我走,我就成日都願走,哈哈! 今次可能放鬆左,又重多左少少,醫生話叫我盡量係8個星期之內重4磅左右就最perfect, 不過我相信重多一兩磅應該吾會係太大問題卦,我都會努力既! 醫生話而家BB應該大約4磅左右,我問BB會吾會under weight, 佢就話BB係最尾個月大得好快,所以吾駛擔心,遲下要去做多次超聲波,睇下BB轉左身未。 亞B, 同媽媽一齊努力呀! 

醫生同我地講有關臍帶血既野,不過真係好好好貴,我地又邊有錢去做咁多額外野?所以都係算啦!

之後就去機場接我父母,真係好耐無見啦!因為要幫我既關係,所以我媽就會留係度耐D,而我爸就兩星期後返HK!佢兩個真係一個願打,一個願捱,我媽成日都嘈我爸,我爸都慣左,吾理佢,當佢唱歌,哈哈,真係兩老.......不過發覺佢地兩個都開始老啦,而我媽可能之前幫我家姐搬屋,搞到好鬼廋,真係要整肥佢呀! 

晚上去左佢細佬既滿月酒,我都有考慮擺吾擺,但係我地又無咁多親朋好友係NY,所以都係未知住,或者一家人一齊食個飯就算啦!我都無所謂,最重要係BB健康呀! 

Thursday, March 22, 2012

baby shower 蛋糕

下星期就係baby shower啦,不過老公搞既野,就緊係咩都無搞啦,佢最中意就係船到橋頭自然直,不過應該都OK既...(希望啦!) 


上網見到好多baby shower既蛋糕,真係好好好得意呀! 不過叫我自己整我又一定吾會,出去買又一定好貴,所以都係求期買個算。 不過欣賞下人地個D都好,哈哈

不過真係捨得食????





baby shower 蛋糕

下星期就係baby shower啦,不過老公搞既野,就緊係咩都無搞啦,佢最中意就係船到橋頭自然直,不過應該都OK既...(希望啦!) 


上網見到好多baby shower既蛋糕,真係好好好得意呀! 不過叫我自己整我又一定吾會,出去買又一定好貴,所以都係求期買個算。 不過欣賞下人地個D都好,哈哈

不過真係捨得食????





是真是假

今日收到朋友既一個email, 叫我分享出去。 雖然吾知有幾成真幾成假,但我相信我地作為中國人係美國吾係完全平等。 唉,真係好可恥,我都聽過類似呢D既新聞,不過又可以做咩呢?





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ted right as all others.......
Something really sad happened today at sunset park. A Chinese man double parked outside a bakery to get a cup of milk tea. So he got a ticket, when he returns to his car, the cop was waiting for him and was going to give him a second ticket for the same reason. This man refuses, then he got BEAT UP by the COP!!! there were many people, mostly Chinese stopped and watch all these. More cops came, fire fighters came, more van with cops in it from 66 and 72 precinct came like there were some armed terrorist there!!!!
NO one who were there saw all these happened step put to say the truth, this Chinese man were treated very rudely and later got hand-cuffed by 4 cops like he had a gun!, for Christ's sake, he had a cup pf milk tea in his hand all the time, what harm can he do to anyone??!! 
Then the cops drove away, and all the people walked on. Even though everybody were very angry, and mad about this, that it was discrimination, but no one did a thing, or say a word. Even the Chinese cops who came with the crew, were laughing and playing his iPhone. What can we expect then? If our own kind is not standing up for us, and everybody is afraid to get involved that might bring them trouble. We are too selfish to think about others, at the end it also harm us with a story like what happened today. not just Chinese, all minorities are experiencing the same issue. I hope we can learn from this and stand together.
 

是真是假

今日收到朋友既一個email, 叫我分享出去。 雖然吾知有幾成真幾成假,但我相信我地作為中國人係美國吾係完全平等。 唉,真係好可恥,我都聽過類似呢D既新聞,不過又可以做咩呢?





I HOPE THAT YOU CAN SHARE THIS, IF YOU STILL HAVE PRIDE IN YOUR RACE, to be trea
ted right as all others.......
Something really sad happened today at sunset park. A Chinese man double parked outside a bakery to get a cup of milk tea. So he got a ticket, when he returns to his car, the cop was waiting for him and was going to give him a second ticket for the same reason. This man refuses, then he got BEAT UP by the COP!!! there were many people, mostly Chinese stopped and watch all these. More cops came, fire fighters came, more van with cops in it from 66 and 72 precinct came like there were some armed terrorist there!!!!
NO one who were there saw all these happened step put to say the truth, this Chinese man were treated very rudely and later got hand-cuffed by 4 cops like he had a gun!, for Christ's sake, he had a cup pf milk tea in his hand all the time, what harm can he do to anyone??!! 
Then the cops drove away, and all the people walked on. Even though everybody were very angry, and mad about this, that it was discrimination, but no one did a thing, or say a word. Even the Chinese cops who came with the crew, were laughing and playing his iPhone. What can we expect then? If our own kind is not standing up for us, and everybody is afraid to get involved that might bring them trouble. We are too selfish to think about others, at the end it also harm us with a story like what happened today. not just Chinese, all minorities are experiencing the same issue. I hope we can learn from this and stand together.
 

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

經過幾個月既車research, 終於都決定左啦,訂金都比左,都無得走雞,嘻嘻。 之前講過打算買hybrid 既SUV, 不過因為覺得吾係太慳油,特別係老公要揸車返工,所以最後決定係,買一架4門房車,再留番我地而家揸開既SUV,其實有兩架車看門口,都安全D,為因如果老公吾係屋企,得我同亞B兩個,有咩事都可以有車用,雖然保險就貴D,但都好過買一架無咁慳油既車。  

我地經過連日來既試車,最後決定左買toyota camry hybrid.  其實心目中有幾個選擇,有toyota prius, prius V, lexus CT200, 老實講, prius係最慳油,不過我覺得好似安全度一般,所以最後比我foul左,而lexus 個架又覺得貴格吾飽,所以又foul埋,最後既兩強係prius V 同 camry, 點解最後選camry呢? 因為佢既安全同horse power都勁過prius V, 同埋我覺得camry可以咁多年都有market, 實有佢既原因,所以最終勝利者就係camry!!哈哈~ 講真,如果吾駛揸車返工,我諗都未必買車,不過D油價不斷上升,老公到summer時入一次油都好昂貴,所以買hybrid係明智之舉! 外型一般啦,貪佢夠大方得體,哈哈哈!





經過幾個月既車research, 終於都決定左啦,訂金都比左,都無得走雞,嘻嘻。 之前講過打算買hybrid 既SUV, 不過因為覺得吾係太慳油,特別係老公要揸車返工,所以最後決定係,買一架4門房車,再留番我地而家揸開既SUV,其實有兩架車看門口,都安全D,為因如果老公吾係屋企,得我同亞B兩個,有咩事都可以有車用,雖然保險就貴D,但都好過買一架無咁慳油既車。  

我地經過連日來既試車,最後決定左買toyota camry hybrid.  其實心目中有幾個選擇,有toyota prius, prius V, lexus CT200, 老實講, prius係最慳油,不過我覺得好似安全度一般,所以最後比我foul左,而lexus 個架又覺得貴格吾飽,所以又foul埋,最後既兩強係prius V 同 camry, 點解最後選camry呢? 因為佢既安全同horse power都勁過prius V, 同埋我覺得camry可以咁多年都有market, 實有佢既原因,所以最終勝利者就係camry!!哈哈~ 講真,如果吾駛揸車返工,我諗都未必買車,不過D油價不斷上升,老公到summer時入一次油都好昂貴,所以買hybrid係明智之舉! 外型一般啦,貪佢夠大方得體,哈哈哈!





意外驚喜


今日收到個意外驚喜,係公司突然收到blog友angela既禮物,嘩嘩嘩, 亞B真係好好好開心呀
!!!! 呢份係一個 cribset, 放係BB床上用,好好好得意呀!!!!!多謝Angela對我地兩個咁好,真係好感動呀! 


亞B:多謝Angela姐姐,到我出來時記住黎探我呀!!


另外一份係老公朋友送架,我都好中意,不過而家天氣咁暖,我都覺得有無需要用呢?? 不過既然有就用左佢啦,費時凍親亞B!  初生嬰兒應該比較容易感染,所以都係有好過無!









今日終於打左比醫院去一個lamaze class, 嘩, 原來呢個class係成7個星期,我仲以為係一日過,哈哈!好彩打得早,如果吾係就趕吾切,因為今個星期4就要上堂啦! 不過原來吾係免費,不過算啦,第一次咩都吾識,比小小錢去準備一下都OK既。 

意外驚喜


今日收到個意外驚喜,係公司突然收到blog友angela既禮物,嘩嘩嘩, 亞B真係好好好開心呀
!!!! 呢份係一個 cribset, 放係BB床上用,好好好得意呀!!!!!多謝Angela對我地兩個咁好,真係好感動呀! 


亞B:多謝Angela姐姐,到我出來時記住黎探我呀!!


另外一份係老公朋友送架,我都好中意,不過而家天氣咁暖,我都覺得有無需要用呢?? 不過既然有就用左佢啦,費時凍親亞B!  初生嬰兒應該比較容易感染,所以都係有好過無!









今日終於打左比醫院去一個lamaze class, 嘩, 原來呢個class係成7個星期,我仲以為係一日過,哈哈!好彩打得早,如果吾係就趕吾切,因為今個星期4就要上堂啦! 不過原來吾係免費,不過算啦,第一次咩都吾識,比小小錢去準備一下都OK既。