Wednesday, March 28, 2012

泡影


曾幾何時,佢既一家人打算一齊買三家庭,大家一齊住,但自從佢父母賣左間樓之後,六月要closing, 所以無樓住,係咁成日都去搵樓,不過好樓難求,邊有咁易,所以琴晚打比老公,同佢講第二個計劃,就係佢地自己買condo. 講真,一開始想一齊買有兩個原因,第一,係將來BB可以好方便比佢亞媽湊,第二,我真係吾想佢父母將所有既野都比哂佢細佬,而我地一家咩都無!不過,現實歸現實,佢父母吾錫佢係有目共睹,所以就算我地做10樣野都吾會比佢細佬做一樣野咁好, 咁又何苦呢? 所以而家決定,我既一家會維持自己既生活,佢地想點就點,將來有事無事都吾好來煩我,至於亞B將來比邊個湊,到時先算啦! 


剛剛睇完ANGELA既天淵之別,都有好大感觸。 除左覺得佢地屋企人既不公平,更加覺得我屋企人對我有幾好。

1)我爸幫家姐比首期買車,而
我爸要公平對待,所以都幫我地比首期買車

2)我地而家住緊既屋係我父母比首期既,我父母無介意,仲話如果賣得出,可以當首期買過間大D既屋
3)我父母打算送張BB床比亞B


而佢既父母呢??我都無expectation! 
 雖然以上既好似好物質,但我有左咁耐,邊有理過我?次次打親都係講睇樓,哈哈,真係不知所謂。 而佢媽次次都同我講佢細佬有幾窮幾窮, 窮? 係既,又要穿明牌,又要揸lexus, 又要供樓,但佢媽話佢地因為有兩個小朋友,而佢老婆放產假又無commission,得base, 所以窮喎! 講真,佢地兩個加埋既base, 無十萬都有9萬,我吾覺得有幾窮囉,所以佢地成日扮窮真係好令我討厭!


不過都好,而家吾駛再咁stressed,為左買屋既事,早排真係訓得好差,而家可以話係一個release! 雖然好似無左個靠山,但要我日日都咁吾開心做人我寧願無左間屋! 其實只要我地兩公婆努力D,我吾信終有一日我買吾到自己間樓! 



係,我係好憎佢屋企人,但呢D事只會係呢度出現,我亞B都吾會講,我吾想好似我玩針對咁。
 

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9 comments:

  1. 恭喜你呀!!我真心覺得唔一齊住一定係你最好的決定。 最好少啲來往, 眼不見為乾淨。 如果佢哋唔係超級富豪,理得佢比哂啲錢比你叔仔. 我都覺我屋企比咗好多嘢比我哋, 而 Dondon 屋企淨係邏邏邏, 唔多高興, 唯有堅持同 Dondon 分開 account, 我屋企比我嘅歸我,佢要比屋企佢自己比, 咁先無咁激氣。
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 01:17:08]其實一開始我跟本就吾想一齊住,而家未一齊住已經搞到面阻阻,想像吾到一齊住會係點,anyway, 而家算係舒一口氣,我老公都吾想煩。咁又係,如果佢老豆係李嘉城,我點都分番份,只不過為左係一層樓,真係一層樓就見真張,所以我同老公都心淡。
    好彩我老公吾係好似DONDON咁,佢屋企人都無問我地攞錢,因為我地都吾會借,哈哈哈!

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  2. When it comes to marriages, it's hard to say what is right and what is wrong. You guys have your own family, then just live your own life and forget about them la!!!
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 01:58:47]i always want to forget about them and have our own lives but it's hard because they are still my hubby's family. But anyway, i am glad we made this decision because i don't have to deal with them anymore!

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  3. 依家雖然煩啲, 但咁做可能仲好, 可以減少日後更加既煩惱. 十隻手指有長短, 但有些父母偏心成咁, 又的確好難理解.
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 21:31:55]算啦,同人吾同命,同遮吾同柄,我註定都係辛苦命,哈哈

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  4. 支持你~
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 21:33:02]多謝小友呀!

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  5. 咁咪仲好 相見好同住難嘛
    就算少爺們將來結咗婚 我都唔會同佢地一齊住呀
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 21:35:24]可能大家既父母吾同見解卦,是但,我又吾係無佢地吾得,我吾依賴佢地,所以跟本無所謂!

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  6. 你爸爸媽媽真係好好,我覺得做人父母,對所有子女都要公平對待,唔可以偏心架!!
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 21:39:31]我都希望個個父母都係咁諗,不過吾係個個都識做,我父母對我係好好,我都覺得好幸福

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  7. I think this is good for your hubby and you. If you live with these selfish people, you will have many troubles in the future. Are you living in staten islands? Do you think you will move to Brooklyn?
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 22:42:24]my mom is gonna stay hopefully until Sep....so i m not worried until later...now i need to clean my house for my baby! headache
    [yanyan回覆03/29/2012 22:24:35]when will your parents be back to HK? YOu can plan who take care of your BB later.
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 22:18:05]i dunno their plan but i assume they'll move in together.
    [yanyan回覆03/29/2012 22:16:45]will his parents move to condo with your bro-in-law?
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 22:10:25]for now it'll be my mom but in the future my hubby said his mom will help...i dunno...let's see....
    [yanyan回覆03/29/2012 21:54:05]you don't need a bigger house now till your bb is getting older. But you need to think about who can take care of your bb. You may need to hire nanny, or send your BB to daycare.
    [版主回覆03/29/2012 21:50:18]if i don't sell my current house, i don't have enough down payment to buy a house in Blyn.... i don't mind living in SI, it's just eventually we need a bigger house when our family expands.

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  8. 有d 父母係咁, 其實我唔係好明做咩要生囉既然咁多唔鍾意...同唔公平
    所以唔好理佢地啦, 開心d 歡迎個小生命
    [版主回覆03/30/2012 22:44:30]而家全部心機放係小生命到,其他野我無諗啦

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  9. 我都寧願自己一家人住, 父母會探, 會聯絡, 但不要同住好
    [版主回覆03/30/2012 22:51:48]而家無呢個計劃lu.....

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