雖然吾係好關我事,但真係不吐不快呢!話說我個叔仔前日病到嘔,跟住琴日佢地兩公婆放假,不過本來休息左一晚都OK,點知又出左去成日,搞到又病番, 到我放工返到屋企接Hannah時,我99就係度complain, 又話佢地兩個都吾識照顧自己,明知自己病仲要出街....blahblahblah.....我想講既係,第一,你地要去送女返學,OK,又話要退野,OK,但吾好成日用呢個籍口來要求我99幫手囉。佢地得星期四同星期日休假,放假既時候都吾會湊住自己個仔,又要送去我99度,兩公婆就自己去退野呀,買野呀,等等等....又話自己間屋未clean up好呀,好忙呀.....我真係頂佢地吾順!跟住我同我老公食完飯,我99仲要幫佢兩公婆既兩個小朋友沖涼餵奶教功課,OMG,我真係覺得呢兩個人無得救!! 我可以比我99 during the day咁湊,但要我99做哂所以野,我自己都過吾到。 跟住又成日教埋個大女化妝查指甲,佢今年先得五歲,幾時查到大?又話佢吾聽話,係,佢係吾聽話,都係你地自己搞成架,你地從來都無同個女溝通,放工後又吾會點理佢,到做功課先坐低,但都係講功課囉,有無問過其實佢想點?有無真正了解過佢?星期日又話要上呢個堂個個堂,跟本無時間去溝通!佢個女由細到大都係99湊大,一個星期可能都會有兩日返自己屋企過,你點可以只係話佢吾乖,而吾反省下自己點對佢? 我覺得佢個女好可憐,到大個更加吾會聽佢地講!
算吧,雖然係吾關我事,但真係要講出黎先可以發洩我對佢地既不滿!
你的叔仔兩公婆好不負責任哩!...難為了你的99啊!..湊咁多小朋友睇少D都唔掂..所以Mummy 5年才生一個..佢話逐個湊逐個錫..當然錫哂我(最細)...代價係兄妹間不溝通..
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/11/2013 23:48:15]真係辛苦架,所以如無必要我都吾想比BB係99度咁多,因為要照顧咁多個真係少D精力都吾得
其實妳叔仔會唔會俾妳99寵慣晒?
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/12/2013 01:06:34]我吾理,最緊要係佢湊到我個女就得,佢要幫人湊B我無計
[Oli回覆01/11/2013 23:52:58]冇計喎,妳99又肯幫佢
[版主回覆01/11/2013 23:47:13]吾知,但咁大個人仲要亞媽成日幫,我覺得好樣衰,不過佢地就take it for granted
係呃,佢有佢教女妙法,由得佢 jek。
ReplyDelete但令到奶奶咁辛苦又唔啱,可惜你哋又唔出得聲。
[版主回覆01/12/2013 01:07:41]出聲咪又係衰人囉,最重要吾好影響我就得,哼,呢D人,得一想二
聽落我都替個小朋友有d慘
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/12/2013 03:57:57]我都覺得好慘
妳奶奶一個人揍BB又要煮飯做家務, 碓係好辛苦架
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/12/2013 05:00:30]係呀,不過係咪老人家中意做野呢?我見佢無咩投訴,哈哈
好心佢地休息就自己湊返小朋友啦!湊仔好忙架又攰,老人家好辛苦架!好彩妳唔似佢地咁!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 00:33:04]我都想好似佢地咁,吾駛湊有人幫我湊,哈哈哈!
一個好好既反面教材!!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 00:33:20]不知所謂
攪錯呀,兩公婆都咁架,好心放假就陪下自己小朋友啦,成日掛住攪自己野,自私!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 00:42:20]要搞好佢個間"豪宅"喎,講真,幾靚都無用,成個示範單位咁,好睇吾好用
i think most elderly people like to help to take care of their children and grandchildren. It makes them feel they are very useful.
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 00:42:53]maybe, but it's parent's responsibility to take care of their kids....
Mrs. Wu,
ReplyDelete-小朋友雖細, 但感受到父母嘅愛護, 到你d 叔仔d 仔女大, d 仔女未必識愛護返父母, 到時, 你叔仔唔好伸, 無人理佢, 因你叔仔都冇付出過. 不過, 我覺你奶奶一個人揍B 又煮飯和料理家務, 好勁呀! 依D 功夫, 其實都唔容易, 要用好多體力㗎!
[版主回覆01/15/2013 00:45:22]我絕對認同,到將來就會後悔點解吾放多D時間落小朋友身上。
湊B真係好多功夫,我都身心疲累
唉..有些夫婦就是這樣, 只懂享樂, 但唔願付出, 對別人是這樣, 對自己仔女也是一樣......
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 00:47:53]咁又何必呢?
點解生左個女出黎好似唔關自己事?平時要返工搵死就話冇計,放假要陪番個女補數呢,仲要細細個就教佢搽指甲,好誇張囉!
ReplyDelete不過老人家有得湊bb真係樂在其中,最慘佢地一個願打一個願捱
[版主回覆01/15/2013 01:07:49]吾止呀,個女仲話要著高跟鞋,又要學化妝,真係
係...唔想湊, 就唔好生
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 01:08:09]我發覺好多人都係咁
好明顯有人仲係好貪玩囉...
ReplyDelete你又唔洗咁勞氣既....
個小朋友係好慘, 但佢都叫做有親人湊呀.
而99咁大個人, 必要時識得say no既...
[版主回覆01/15/2013 01:08:54]佢咁錫個仔,又點會睇住佢C......縱壞哂
5歲開始揸指甲油
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 01:10:27]唉,個小朋友好可憐
真係家家有本難唸的經!希望你叔仔佢地早日醒覺啦!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/15/2013 01:10:21]醒就吾會架啦,希望吾好變本加厲啦
I agree with 真係家家有本難唸的經!
ReplyDeleteAt least your in-laws don't have to financially support your brother-in-law!
[版主回覆01/15/2013 02:21:11]maybe they did but i just dunno......
妳跟A的背景相似老公打機兄弟怪怪唔鬼好理他們得閑同女女行街街
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/16/2013 03:10:20]真係幾似喎講開
都真係唔明唔鐘意小朋友又生0黎做咩...
ReplyDelete原來仲有個女,0甘99咪湊3個...勁!
小朋友真係要用心湊&了解先會有健康成長...
[版主回覆01/16/2013 03:09:54]有好多人都係咁架,生完就算,吾理佢地。
個大女已經返學啦,所以吾駛99湊,嘻嘻
唉,你奶奶縱佢地,佢地又唔自省,最慘係小朋友,希望小朋友長大后唔好學佢地!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/16/2013 03:10:42]我都希望啦,不過佢地覺得無問題就OK啦
咁岩睇到~~又會咁嘅~要生出來~就要有責任教~教唔好係自己嘅事~雖然我唔知我係點樣媽媽~我都做過人仔女~心態係點我都會好清楚~有時有D野係相向的~佢地都唔比時間仔女~我話過我老公架~第時BB出世,就無得時時玩電話電腦~要多D同BB傾計~唔想佢一出街就係電話電話~
ReplyDelete[版主回覆01/16/2013 03:11:51]男人呢家野,真係吾好信。我老公夠話食飯時吾睇電話,電視,而家樣樣做齊。我都懶得理佢。
做得父母的便兼顧照顧仔女的重任,有屋企人幫手固然好,但不要覺得係理所當然。
ReplyDelete生兒育女係一個很大很大的責任,既然不願付出,不如想清楚才計劃生育!