小朋友受傷係一件好正常既事,有時跌跌撞撞就一身都傷哂,我都見怪不怪,不過,前日返到屋企時,見到Hannah B隻手有幾條傷痕,面上都有一條,咁正常來說,係咪會問下發生咩事先?而家係由我6299湊,其實我吾介意佢地話Hannah 跌親呀,整親呀,咁咁咁,但問親佢地既答案,一係就話 "哎呀,吾知呀" 一係就話 "噢,吾係我湊架,係你62湊架" 叫我問佢,到問佢,又係吾知,唉!我都係想知發生咩事啫,吾係要怪責佢地,但咁樣不負責任同A字膊我就真係吾多欣賞囉。最大問題,已經吾係第一次,第一次時,係佢學行,行行下跌左落張椅子到整親眼皮,呢件事已經係幾個月前既事,條痕到而家仲未退...第二次又係撞親個頭,腫左成個波咁,唉..........我見到咁,其實好心痛,但我又無能唯力,就算佢地幾吾中意我地都好啦,吾該吾好搞我地個女,佢係無辜架! 我知我老公好吾開心,覺得自己無用,搵吾到錢要個女比佢地湊,但我都同佢講,就算比錢人湊,都吾會係100%肯定佢地係好架啦,但佢又話, 起碼人地吾會同你講吾知喎....唉,突然間好掛住自己亞媽,起碼我覺得佢會用心機去湊,吾會hea住咁湊囉。而家我朝朝同Hannah 講, 你要乖呀,識自己照顧自己呀,雖然佢都吾知我講咩,但我都要alert下佢先呀!
雖然吾係好傷,但我只係想得個知字,如果佢地湊佢都吾知發生咩事,咁同無人湊有咩分別先?????
雖然吾係好傷,但我只係想得個知字,如果佢地湊佢都吾知發生咩事,咁同無人湊有咩分別先?????
各位blog友,吾知大家有無識人做湊B呢?我家姐想搵個人幫佢湊BB,不過吾要賓賓,吾駛過夜,做一至五,好似office hour咁,有少許經驗啦,幫手睇下BB,餵奶呀,玩呀,換片呀,或者有時趁BB訓左可以出去幫手買下餸(我家姐係有個工人既,咁工人可以幫少少手睇住!)人工方面就吾知啦,不過應該可以negotiate既。 佢吾需要而家幫手,我諗大約10月到啦,吾該哂大家! 有咩可以PM我,thank you!
I am lucky. My mom is watching my younger one.
ReplyDeleteI prefer daycare. When my oldest one was in daycare, they always told me if he got hurt or anything like that.
[版主回覆06/20/2013 04:50:37]i wish my mom was here to watch my kid....sigh!
i think if we send her to daycare, they have a better responsibility
most grandparents love their grandchildren. I wonder what your in-laws are thinking.
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/20/2013 05:23:29]i think they love her but at the same time, they just have no heart.....ummm...i have nothing to say
好嬲啊,話唔知!
ReplyDelete我以前舊工人有時都話唔知!
一仔果時比湊B姨姨湊,有一次撞瘀了,她主動話我知,我明白,亦肯欣賞她的坦白!
[Annie回覆06/24/2013 02:41:43]希望Hannah B快d学識講野,將来有什么事都会同爸媽講!
[版主回覆06/21/2013 03:50:38]我真係寧願佢話我知發生咩事,好過到我發現時,就同我講吾知,咁即係點?
會唔會係俾大伯個仔scratch到呀,D傷痕似scratch多過跌親,而且係係手仔內側
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/21/2013 03:51:35]可能係D枱邊位置介親,不過重點吾係佢受傷,係點解會同我講吾知..........
作為爺爺麻麻點解都咁?
ReplyDelete唔係應該錫到燶架咩?至少都睇緊D..唔會比佢受一D不必要的傷害囉~~~
[版主回覆06/21/2013 03:52:43]或者佢地行開行埋睇吾到,但吾好次次都推卸責任,咁我仲吾開心啦!
Mrs.Wu 你是好太太.
ReplyDelete[博師奶Mrs.blog回覆06/21/2013 09:52:38]對啊﹗小朋友最重要,加加油,不要氣餒啊﹗會越來越好的,要常存盼望。
[版主回覆06/21/2013 03:55:08]我吾想搞到大家咁薑,咁不如一人讓一步啦,我寧願佢對我個女好D,我都吾care佢地點諗我啦
睇見都心痛,咁都唔知?唉!但係你而家要好聲好氣,唔好黑口黑面咁呀!你個女仲要佢湊架,又唔係有仇,唔會害佢既。
ReplyDelete我阿媽話湊仔係「輕枷重罪」,所以佢唔肯湊孫,後來我奶奶幫我湊,我呀哥第一時間同我講,睇bb係好辛苦架,老人家就更辛苦,首先要比老人家覺得你好尊重佢,真事實佢係幫緊你,就算比番好多錢佢,都要心存感激。
記得以前我幫鄰居帶佢個女去睇醫生,醫生伯知道我唔係佢呀媽,同個細路講,你鄰居好好窩,細路話我媽媽比藥架,有陣時會送番嘢比佢架。
醫生話,咁我收左醫藥費醫好左你,你都唔會講唔該架啦!感恩同尊重比錢重要。
「你敬我一尺,我敬你一丈」如果係老爺奶奶就更加要比多d心機同佢地溝通,你唔like佢,佢like你,咁攪攪下就好大獲架啦!
邊個湊都好,如果力有不逮,或者情緒有問題都唔得既,幾多阿媽自己湊都湊唔掂啦!
記得我奶奶幫我湊個仔既時候都有好多問題架,但係我第一時間話,阿b真係唔乖囉,奶奶要你咁辛苦湊佢,真係唔好意思,多謝曬!奶奶話自既仔孫呀馬。
後來奶奶同我阿姑湊仔,奶奶成日同話我姑爺好煩,成日揪稱佢,唔通我會害自己個孫咩。
總之清官難審家庭事,有長有幼就特辛苦架啦!
[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:26:57]其實我對佢地已經好容忍,見到面打招呼笑笑口,學你講,始終個女要佢湊,我當然吾能夠得罪啦,我真係吾係怪佢地,如果真係有咩事發生,我真係想得個知字,但一句吾知真係令我好吾開心!
[Bee 婆婆回覆06/20/2013 14:59:20]呀!
咁陰公既HANNAH~~
ReplyDelete咁樣唯有自己小心D,
始終係女仔,多幾條痕就唔靚架喇~~
[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:27:27]係啦,我都係咁諗,男仔就話無所謂啫
張相睇唔真呀. 不過明白你做阿媽既有幾心痛囉...
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/25/2013 03:11:43]我心情好矛盾,不過希望佢地要幫我好好照顧Hannah 啦!我吾要求D咩,吾好搞到口腫面腫就已經好開心啦
[田鼠b回覆06/22/2013 09:29:41]我諗有啲老人家係咁. 佢覺得要向你承認佢唔小心等同認低威. 所以就咁答你...
不過你要佢幫手湊, 無計. 唯一可以諗下hannah整親佢地一定唔係特登, 點都好過俾工人湊. 果個始終係佢個孫, 所以原則上係信得過既. 只係佢可能口硬啲囉...
[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:36:03]其實我吾係心痛,係真係覺得佢地話比我聽吾知,我speechless囉,咁即係點?即係如果要幫佢看屋,跟住比人偷哂D野走,我一句"吾知"喎又大哂,佢又吹我吾脹咁?
真係痛在MAMA心><
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:38:43]我吾係心痛,係speechless多D
唉,佢仲係62,99 ?
ReplyDelete什麼都話唔知,可以咁樣對自己的孫?
[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:38:56]我都想知點解係咁
唉,佢仲係62,99 ?
ReplyDelete什麼都話唔知,可以咁樣對自己的孫?
唉,我覺得老人家就係咁,而且就算整親佢地都覺少意思,佢地用番以前個套方式凑仔
ReplyDelete陪月就識,凑B就真係唔識,唔係妳媽咪凑咩?
[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:41:34]其實整親真係無咩所謂,佢地吾跌吾大,但吾好同我講D咁求奇既說話,真係無野好講架!
咁有時我亞媽會過來幫我手,咁我家姐咪要個人囉。
見到HANNAH咁樣, 戥妳肉赤呀
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:41:59]唉,小事,但佢地再係咁我相信我會爆炸!
陰工豬囉~~
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:42:20]真係陰工,有佢地幫手睇住
見到真係心痛C,而家啱啱識行真係要睇住架
ReplyDelete我小檬已經開展擒凳喇!
[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:45:11]我有睇實,不過我吾係24小時係屋企,為左搵食,所以亞女要食得咸魚抵得渴,陰工,咁細個就要咁,不過好彩好多blog媽媽都錫Hannah, 咁我都安樂D
呀!Hannah一歲囉窩,活潑好動,會爬同學行啦,就算看牛咁看都會睇漏眼嘅,你大人有大量唔好咁嬲囉,不如留意吓佢嘅活動範圍有冇d危險,或者有d嘢好容易整倒佢架,d肉咁嫩,hi下都傷啦!湊bb越大越傷神架!唔比佢郁又唔得,郁得多又有危險,靚媽真係唔易做架!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 01:45:51]都係個句,佢整親我吾介意,但係吾好同我講咩都吾知囉。
有冇搞錯呀,睇見都心痛啦
ReplyDelete果個係佢地個孫黎嫁,唔係應該睇實嫁咩
正常老人家照顧小朋友就最驚佢地整親嫁啦
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:05:13]整親都吾係大問題,我明白佢地成日走來走去,有機會跌跌撞撞,但同我講話吾知就真係吾係咁得,因為無可能咩都吾知架ma
我明你唔開心D 咩, 你不是要怪責佢地, 你只係想知道發生咩事 ...
ReplyDelete不過為世所迫, 我地個個都想24小時對住bb, 問題是我地都要番工只好交托比其他人~
但BB 再大D就好D 存啦~
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:31:34]希望有人間,我只係想要一個滿意既答案,吾係要問責呀!
其實應該同你老公話就算講到比你知, d 工人有機會都"吹水"啦:)
ReplyDelete請人睇bb, 不如請我hahaha...講笑咋, 你媽子唔係幫你家姐湊咩?
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:30:55]邊請得起你呀,哈哈! 我亞媽遲下可能過來幫我手,咁我家姐咪要個人幫囉。
一家人麻,係整親、跌親、唔小心咪講囉,A 字又唔太好.....
ReplyDelete嗯,對喔,希望 Hannah 自己乖乖,識自己照顧自己啦.....
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:30:16]我都希望佢會識聽我講,自己乖自己玩
我搵工人姐姐湊,佢都係講"唔知",明明早上出門口係無事,返到屋企就有血印係面,雖然我估係bb 自己整損多,俾人湊都預左,無法。
ReplyDelete你家姐有工人,點解仲要請多一個!?若你既要求,真的唔平,我朋友請香港人,$70一小時,一個月要萬多元,我覺得唔係好值。
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:29:49]係架,工人你都會覺得係外人,吾會比十分你湊好,但個兩個係親人,我吾想聽到D咁既答案囉。
嘩,原來要咁貴,我家姐吾信得個工人,覺得佢無湊B經驗,所以想揾個有多D經驗既人幫手....我都吾知佢咁多,佢自己中意啦!
睇落似冇剪手甲, 自己抓傷自己~ 但至於99的問題就真係.... 祝福妳搵到適合的人幫手!!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:27:43]吾知幾時先有咁既一日呢? 應該等多幾年,等小朋友返學我就可以脫離摩掌
小瀅豬係DAY CARE..不過有時係佢自己指甲介損..
ReplyDelete都有紫紫青青既痕跡架.... (不過自己見過個囡點爬就知架喇, 佢會唔會避開玩具架, 照爬過去)
其實自己湊, 人地湊都會有損傷...
1歲check up, 醫生都話, 依家小B最鍾意撞頭tim...
開懷會開心D
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:26:42]我無野,不過當然希望佢地可以比多D心機幫我湊啦!唉.....無計,我地兩個要出去做野,BB係可憐D架啦!
唉, 哩d事成日遇到!!
ReplyDelete其實小朋友整親哩到果到, 我都唔介意架, 有邊個小朋友未試過整親呀!!
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:24:07]我都吾介意呀,但吾好話我知吾知囉
哎呀呀 ~ 唔知...?Hannah b愈來愈大,真係要睇實d!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:23:29]真係好難,除非佢訓啦,如果吾係都幾難
人地話,孫係要黎寵喎。
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:22:59]應該係,但吾係個個都會係咁既
陰功 Hannah B
ReplyDelete係喎,爪痕嚟喎。 有無搽返啲嘢?
[版主回覆06/22/2013 02:21:39]我諗都係係櫃邊介親,應該吾係好大問題既! 今日都已經好番好多啦!
oo...陰公,hannah 大過啲應該會識保護自己..
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/25/2013 03:08:01]望就咁望啦!
講真出面俾錢私人湊B有D仲衰,唔理個B,坐在car seat放入衣櫃一日到黑放在床仔玩,有時又俾D大個D小朋友打,我都唔知聽幾多呢D野,返学個D daycare 就好,不過好貴下,6299湊起碼唔會甘,自己個孫一定对佢好,老人家要睇兩個B都好辛苦,有時真係睇唔住佢地架、冇法啦!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/25/2013 03:07:47]我無怪佢地呀,我只不過係想得個知字,我都吾想當好似無發生咁....我好明白佢地既情況,但要同我講吾知真係好難聽
嘩隻手仔咁多條痕,睇見都心痛呀,其實屋企環境又好難想象可以咁整親喎
ReplyDelete我都係99湊B,其實老人家應該錫孫錫到燶呀,如果佢地咁樣,唯有自己遵一圈睇下邊度可以加番啲安全措拖,避免Hannah b再整親啦
[版主回覆06/25/2013 03:06:37]我地拎落去佢地屋企,我都無理由叫佢地改善下個環境,不過我會盡量小心,唯有希望Hannah B自己照顧自己啦!
小朋友撞撞跌跌好正常,不過都明你會心痛,畢竟小傷就話,大傷就分分鐘跟一世。想起細個有次唔小心撞到電腦桌角,成隻右眼腫起,日日係幼兒園都有人問我咩事
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/25/2013 03:05:30]其實我都係想得個知字,我無意圖想話佢地..........唉
唉!老人家湊系咁的,特別系奶奶湊始終無自已媽媽照顧得咁好,龍哈仔都系奶奶湊,好在幾個鐘!唔系我都想象唔到會變成點!因為我奶奶系唔理龍哈仔的,由他四圍爬,上次龍哈仔就給奶奶夾親隻手出血,我都無可能怪她!不過媽媽湊真系好D!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/24/2013 22:57:07]OMG,咁恐怖?流哂血?自己亞媽真係好好多................
好心痛。一句吾知就算><求主保祐Hannah健康快樂。吾好整親。
ReplyDelete[版主回覆06/25/2013 03:04:54]自己無能力去湊,搵人幫手就係咁,我預左會係咁,但我吾想聽吾知呢個字囉.............
媽媽見到一定唔開心架那!
ReplyDelete不過老人家都應該唔想咁既!
[版主回覆07/09/2013 02:35:44]雖然係啫,但次次問親咩都吾知我都幾灰
我都明白聽到"唔知"時既心情
ReplyDelete大家都要返工唔可以24小時湊b都冇辦法
bb再大懂事d就好好多架喇
hannah媽hannah爸加油呀!
[版主回覆07/09/2013 02:36:14]加緊油啦,希望快D中頭獎吾駛做,哈哈
如 果 可 以 裝 個 cam就 可 以 成 日 睇 住 hannah b喇 ~~
ReplyDelete不 過 小 朋 友 跌 跌 撞 撞 成 日 都 有 ....向 好 0個 方 面 諗 , 6299話 唔 知 都 好 過 作 個 原 因 俾 你 啦 ~起 馬 佢 0地 honest!
[版主回覆07/09/2013 02:37:29]裝cam?係人地屋企?好似吾係咁好卦............好似話比佢地知我吾信得過你地咁,吾係咁好意思既.........
希望到佢大D會好D啦!