我家Hannah真係好扭計，最扭計時間係下午時份，好多時佢訓唔著就會扭眼瞓，我一抱佢就好快瞓著，其實自己並唔想成曰抱咁多，奈何有時喊到唔收聲，真係好難教，抱又話怕佢習慣左，唔抱佢又勁扭計，唉，好矛盾！呢幾曰有個方法，就係扒住瞓，係好危險，所以每次我都必定係隔離，肯定佢呼吸ok, 無辦法，佢中意個心口比野責住，我都無計。
琴晚沖完涼又嚎哭一番，究竟點解次次沖完涼都好似咁辛苦？之後又要扭計一輪先食奶。有時覺得老公真幸福，唔駛曰日對住BB而又束手無策，我擔心嘅係，到我返工時，而我媽又返左香港，得返我同老公，究竟佢會唔會放工後幫手湊定好似而家輕輕鬆鬆鄧梓峰？有時我都需要個break, 不過亞媽幫手有限，佢係一個機器人，我叫佢做乜就做，無自己主見。
第一次嘔奶真係觸目驚心，個次老公餵奶，點知可能奶咀整到喉嚨，所以BB嘔，嘔到由鼻同口出來，真係嚇到差D暈左。我個刻好慌張，因為未見過同擔心，但我又要好努力扮鎮定，跟住大家幫亞B換完衫，老公就要求我繼續餵，我話我好驚，唔敢餵，但佢話驚乜野，要我接手佢嘅爛攤子，唉，個次一路餵我就一路喊，點解老公成日都要迫我呢？我知佢想訓練我，但唔通連驚都唔可以？有時好羨慕老公細佬，我99差不多七日幫佢湊足，而且我99係做托兒，經驗極豐富，起碼好過我而家半桶水啦。羨慕佢地有咩事都有個人幫手，而我就自己靠自己。我唔中意靠人，但某些事情要依賴一個人都係人之常情。
人地話有BB可以維繫夫妻間關係，我地而家基本上係分開訓，佢怕BB嘈唔夠精神第二日返工，所以佢選擇出廳訓,um......
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Mrs Wu, 你遲d要返工時, 邊個會幫你湊bb?
ReplyDelete幾時都係做媽媽最辛苦, 要撐住! 努力呀!
[版主回覆07/19/2012 18:59:46]應該會由我99...係好辛苦同大壓力呀
有啲BB係鍾意扒响度瞓架 小心睇住吓 無問題嘅
ReplyDelete有邊個新手媽媽會有經驗喎 都係邊揍邊學架啦 俾心機 加油呀
[版主回覆07/19/2012 18:59:41]有咩唔識請教你
Mrs Wu, 不用心急,
ReplyDelete揍BB就是要面對鑊鑊新鮮, 鑊鑊金的情況....
個個BB都唔同, 無人會預計到有什麼特別麻煩事發生....
妳好有愛心, 好有母性就什麼難關都過到,
我對妳有信心.....
[版主回覆07/19/2012 20:14:44]咁睇得起我? 我都有陣時覺得煩躁
"輕鬆鬆鄧梓峰"
ReplyDelete希望遲啲搬埋一齊你奶奶會多啲時間幫你湊啦，努力！
[版主回覆07/20/2012 00:07:59]希望啦, 但堅持夜晚自己湊番
點解D BB想訓又唔訓架?聽講佢地鐘意被野"責"住訓架，有安全感ma
ReplyDelete妳一個人做晒，好難頂喎
你地個邊冇得上生前陪訓班呀?咁你老公起碼都識點湊BB喎
[版主回覆07/20/2012 18:31:00]噢, 我都無留意添, 哈哈!
可能真係有D班教人點陪住訓覺 :-P
[Oli回覆07/20/2012 17:43:28]哈哈，多謝老師指點
[冬日 Winter回覆07/20/2012 16:30:54]應該是 "產前培訓班"
生前唔同產前, 陪訓唔同培訓....!!
攪吓笑...兩位唔好介意啊,!!
[版主回覆07/20/2012 00:23:01]佢唔係唔識湊, 係懶, 哈哈! 生前陪訓都無教D乜, 係参觀医院law
Mrs. Wu,
ReplyDelete-你個女鐘意安全感，我知有啲BB鐘意有d嘢係身邊，先瞓到. 我知有啲人揍BB, 會攞pillow"責'BB對腳上. 令BB感覺有d嘢係身邊倍住，容易入睡.
-你係新手媽咪，好多嘢都係好新鮮，但咩都自己黎可増加經驗，同B女更多溝通和接觸.其他有得依賴嘅媽咪，就少咗依樣嘢！
-你先生要分牀，咁特別. 你有冇諗過比B女自己一間房？
[版主回覆07/20/2012 03:40:08]佢好奇怪，下午時間特別需要安全感，到夜晚又可以自己訓著，不過都好，夜晚唔訓我仲辛苦
They say Children are the best 'Birth Control", now you will have to wait till they sleep or out to enjoy!!!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/20/2012 03:40:50]Haha it's probably true. Even when I try to kiss my hubby, when my baby cries I have to stop lol
上次我去上堂個兒科醫生話佢自己個BB都鈡意扒住瞓,佢都好似妳咁望往BB瞓"琳",將BB反番身。醫生話6個月前BB哭係應該抱起BB俾安全感佢,因為6個月前BB個腦係未識用哭黎吸引大人注意,BB哭只係因為想人安撫同唔舒服。
ReplyDelete上 Infant care 堂,我同老公都雞手鴨腳,而家好擔心到時會點!
[版主回覆07/20/2012 06:01:49]我都想抱，不過抱得多比人話，話第時點湊！放心啦，船到橋頭自然直，你放鬆心情等生啦
你有係辦法買到細size圓洞型枕頭？好似呢種：http://images.madeinchina.com/A83B00E76B7DEB7CE040007F0100487C/477/7695477_5/24pcs-bamboo-charcoal-small-round-pillow-small_7695477_5.jpg
ReplyDelete我哋以前湊BB就會俾佢哋打側瞓，跟住搵個圓洞枕頭long住個身同心口，等BB唔會完全爬轉，一定呼吸到，好安全架。
一唔係叫你阿媽(或者自己)整個米袋，壓住個心口咁就唔駛爬轉瞓都會有安全感。
嘔奶唔駛驚，好平常，嘔得出無侄住已經係好事，最怕嘔唔影響呼吸啫。我哋以前有啲「嘔仔」餐餐都嘔翻半支奶出嚟架，仲要係遠程勁射好似電影軀魔人咁架，噴到我哋一身都係架。但都無辦法，有啲小朋友就係咁，唯有餵多幾次囉。
你兩個都太緊張喇，唔係發燒或者喊到嘔，都唔駛太上心，你個囡唔扭計，BB喊好正常啫，佢又唔識講嘢，你唔可以expect佢一日都瞓同靜靜望住你架喎。
[版主回覆07/20/2012 11:08:10]唔知呢，我比我99講到我成日抱，又縱壞佢，其實中國人個D方法係由佢喊，但我就做唔到。
Take it easy, take a deep breathe - you can do it :-)
ReplyDeleteI think most new mothers feel the same way... I remember Brian and I took Cole to see doctor 3-4 times during the first week or two! hahaa :-p
Right now, both you and your husband may not have enough sleep, and you two may have different parenting ideas, talk through it and be calm. My parents came for the first several months, then we're on our own, hubby's mom lives 3 hours away...
I think one thing is important, just remember relationship of a couple is the foundation of the family. Trust me, I know what you mean about the last matter... it will be better.
Best wishes to you and ur family!
P.S. don't worry about getting used to holding or not holding, baby need security feeling. You can also wrap Hannah like a burrito, that may give her some security. :-)
[版主回覆07/20/2012 11:04:20]Hahaha like burrito! I want to see how she looks like lol
Every new parent is worried but eventually we will get better. Thanks!
Have you try to swaddle your baby. I have heard that swaddling help baby to feel more secure. You try try... Really try to sleep with your husband on the same bed... Dont let you guys get use to it... Some people do the same thing like you after their first baby and ended up it last for the rest of their life. Family build on marriage, the relationship needs to be strong to hold a family. Good luck ar... You can do it... We should have babies meet up someday.
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/25/2012 08:23:26]yea we should but i m afraid to bring my bb out, she doesnt like the car seat.
做人媽媽甚艱難世上只有媽媽好請努力做個好媽媽
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/25/2012 08:22:26]好努力啦
我都覺bb出世後同老公關係差咗，不過我覺得耐少少會調節到。加油呀！
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/25/2012 08:21:57]又唔係話差, 不過大家有唔同湊B方法要大家磨合下先!大家一齊努力呀
mrs Wu ...努力,, 加油....
ReplyDelete我信妳一定揍得掂 一定得 (因bb出世後, 妳身份已改變, 是媽咪級無得放棄)
哈哈....
[版主回覆07/25/2012 08:20:20]湊得掂, 24/7 嘅媽媽就係我, 哈哈
湊一個BB唔容易，你老公都要學下share responsibilities, 唔可以只係靠你一個。到時候，你要番工，你媽媽又番埋香港，佢無諗過幫手？宜家你未番工仲有人幫手，就話攪得掂。同你老公溝通溝通，當你番工後佢會點做。
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/25/2012 08:17:20]而家就比佢輕鬆D, 遲D大家返工就大家分擔嘞
Hannah同你訓?
ReplyDelete我阿姨同姨丈同BB訓同一張床，BB係中間。我問佢做咩唔比佢訓BB床，佢話佢地都想，但BB唔鐘意，又成日醒，就算危險D都無計。
anyway，都係個句，辛苦你！
[版主回覆07/25/2012 08:15:26]同房但唔同床, 佢自己訓都ok所以無理. 開頭辛苦D, 而家都ok
我女兒巳中學了 , 回想 bb 時期同妳差不多 , 辛苦擔心喜悅各有之 , 但人生只有此機會一次 , 好好享受吧 , 付出多收獲也多 , 感受當下活在當下 .
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/26/2012 17:32:44]是的, 每曰都是新挑戰, 但都好享受BB在我身邊
乖的BB就好開心好好玩...扭計BB就好煩...Mrs.Wu要發下威唔好俾BB蝦至得架!...好在Mummy話我細個好乖的...哈!哈!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/27/2012 05:33:29]好難發威㗎