好啦，呻訴完畢，雖然無咩大幫助，但起碼i feel better....
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Stress
呢幾日都好stress, 不外都係因為Hannah B吾肯食野，唉！其實我知道吾食小小野應該好閒，但見佢又吾肯食solid, 又吾肯食奶，我真係好好好大壓力，加上佢晚上訓又成日叫，我又吾夠訓，而個枕頭又搞到我條頸好痛，加埋加埋，我真係就快癲！ 老公又吾多幫手，我話亞B佢又話我話佢，咁如果我連講野既權利都無，不如我吾好湊啦！ 之前我係度complain, 因為早上要早起身餵奶係我，放工幫亞B沖涼又係我，以前晚上餵奶都係我，而佢就負責洗奶樽，之後諗諗下，好似吾係好fair喎，點解我要做多樣？ 我就比佢揀，一係你幫佢沖涼，我餵奶，一係就你夜晚做哂兩樣，佢就話吾識幫佢沖涼，所以而家佢晚上兩樣做哂，我就可以休息，哈！ 係架，我係天秤座，做咩都要fair, 而且個女大家都有份，我吾想咩都做哂，好似個工人咁。 我weekend又要煮飯，而佢只不過係陪住個女，一係睇下電視，一係玩下，有幾辛苦呀？ 上個星期六，佢仲nap左成3個幾鐘，試問佢又點會stress呀？ 而最frustrated就係，佢吾明我點解咁frustrated. 我個個weekend都好努力煮野食比亞女，我早上餵完奶我就開始煮，而我個老公當然仲在夢鄉啦，到煮好比亞女食，佢又吾肯食，我地有時一齊食，一齊餵，佢又話我不如focus係餵，叫我遲下先餵，但我真係好擔心佢無米落肚呀。 佢吾明既原因係因為都吾駛佢煮，如果佢要煮而無人識欣賞，我相信都會吾太開心喔。 唉，點解我老公好似吾係好明白我？ 而我又點先可以stress free呢？我突然間又好掛住屋企，因為起碼可以比我話下，我既stress又得以release....哈哈，真係好衰呀！
好啦，呻訴完畢，雖然無咩大幫助，但起碼i feel better....
好啦，呻訴完畢，雖然無咩大幫助，但起碼i feel better....
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我老公又係甘，叫拒幫下手就多多藉囗.又湊唔掂阿B，BB咸佢又發脾氣.有時又投訴話食飯遲！次次都只顧BB食先而唔理佢、甘我一句同佢講等唔切o米自己煮o羅！一係你餵BB食糊仔，跟住佢一定唔出声，因為佢又懶唔想煮又餵唔掂個仔，只有無声抗議！哈哈
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/20/2013 05:34:46]點解D男人覺得我地女人一定要做哂所有野？ridiculous......
哎呀，D男人係咁，妳叫先做，唔叫就唔做，就算叫咗都唔記得做，最後女人會忍唔住，自己做番好過
ReplyDelete同佢講完，佢可能會好一陣，但之後又照舊，真激C人...但係咁多年都係咁，我唯有接受
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:24:48]係啦，之前都complain過，未生之前同之後都無好大分別，所以我都懶得理啦！
男人係咁，你講佢唔明，但朋友同佢講就明，有時我老公都係咁，所以有時我係陰d陰d呻或者詐地同bb講等佢聽到，亦等佢慢慢吸收同消化。
ReplyDelete如果一個做晒餵奶、沖凉、洗奶樽好辛苦！
Hannah B係未吽出牙？或者比d开奶茶她飲？
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:24:08]我琴晚就做完啦，因為老公餵吾掂BB，唉！
算啦，做得媽媽就預左....我都係呻下啫
深呼吸, 放鬆....hannah唔食野, 唔係你煮得唔好食, 而係佢根本唔鍾意食, 又或者出牙仔令佢無mood食野. 所以唔關你事架. 好多bb都曾經有厭奶期, 都係咁survive過黎. 到佢真係有mood既時候, 就乜都食架喇.
ReplyDelete同埋男人多數都係咁, 粗枝大葉係佢地既名字. 你最好adjust下你既mentality, 唔好望佢會主動幫你, 亦唔好祈求佢會明白我地既心情, 但只要你踢佢時佢肯郁就好好架喇...
我自問都係個緊張大師, 雖然日日俾田鼠爸激親, 但有時我會諗, 好彩佢係咁, 可以balance下我既神經, 如果唔係兩個緊張大師喺一齊會仲大鑊...
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:23:15]所以我決定佢食就食，吾食就算，我控制吾到！其實我無依賴老公架，我知佢吾會做，只不過係blog到講下令我情緒可以舒服D咋！多謝田鼠媽既分享，我會努力煮令BB追住食，嘻嘻
望下Hannah 女女咁可愛就有返力量架喇！！加油呀
ReplyDelete我又係天秤座架
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:17:48]佢訓著個樣就sweet,吾肯食奶個樣就 ＞_<
我以前都試過因為妹豬唔肯飲奶攪到毎人好唔開心,有幾次重試過發妹豬老豆脾氣,不過不過後來响媽咪會到見到有媽咪post出嚟話"醫生話bb唔食嘢就由佢,佢肚餓自然會食,無bb會比自己餓親嘅"睇完呢段嘢之後,我突然諗通咗,之後就由得佢,食嘢呢家嘢真係迫唔嚟
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:05:06]好難控制呀，我有時就會谷住谷住，多數係亞B背後XYZ佢，跟住佢就會話我痴線！
[M & M回覆03/20/2013 21:28:10]真 係 要 控 制 脾 氣 , 對 大 人 /bb都 唔 好 ....一 知 自 己 就 發 火 就 要 離 開 可 能 會 傷 及 無 顧 0既 人 自 己 冷 靜 0下 ..of course, 發 適 當 0既 細 火 又 唔 會 傷 感 0情 既
um...換轉係我都會感到吃力和有壓力，家庭外仲要兼顧工作，真係好辛苦，而且我都覺得照顧小孩係父母的責任，爸爸都要多d參與！
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/21/2013 03:35:45]你真係識安慰我
[小高回覆03/20/2013 23:25:03]ＨＡＨＡ慢慢來，有好過無！:P
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:03:59]佢都有參與，不過參參下變左去打機同訓覺.....
你要俾自己休息下, maybe 自己出去一陣relax 下, 做MAMA 幾時都係辛苦過BABA. 你要加油!
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:02:23]但我地已經飽受生B既痛苦，居然仲要承受湊B既煩惱，做媽媽真係好慘呀！
can she eat yoghurt? I see that babies/kids in France eat yoghurt very often.
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:01:23]i fed her once and she had a funny face, haha....maybe i'll try again next time
真 係 要 放 鬆 一 0下 啊 ~ 不 如 揾 一 個 weekend放 自 己 半 日 假 俾 hannah b 爸 爸 湊 , 煮 食 (包 括 hannah b0既) 都等 爸 爸 一 手 包 辦~ 你 就 出 街 抖 0下 氣 shop 0下 ping, 等 爸 爸 知 道 媽 媽 確 實 係 super mom! 可 能 到 時 會 自 覺 幫 手 多 0的 ~~
ReplyDelete[M & M回覆03/22/2013 03:05:10]oh...0甘 有 人 幫 又 真 係 可 以 偷 0下 懶 ...
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:01:03]我有時weekend要返工，我老公就會湊B，但佢都吾會煮，會叫99煮完拎比BB食，佢咁懶，點會煮？
好應該兩公婆分工合作嘅。
ReplyDelete我諗如果我哋有BB一定係乜都我做哂。
[版主回覆03/21/2013 03:52:23]下？？？好驚喎，咁無衛生？？？？？？？
[Angela回覆03/21/2013 03:44:49]啊佢哋，Salina 無做嘢喺屋企湊。不過佢唔可以同你嘅湊法比。毫無child-proof， 佢會叫啲細佬通屋大小便，間屋臭過公廁。
打針淨係做 IVF 嗰個月打，平時都打我破產 + 生 cancer 架。
[版主回覆03/21/2013 03:37:06]佢地既小朋友邊個幫佢地湊？
你無打針啦？
[Angela回覆03/20/2013 23:03:54]講真我寧願自己湊。 睇吓阿炳 Salina 啲 standard， 意又污糟又危險又教啲細佬打槍戰 games， Dondon 應該同佢哋一樣。
都係噏吓啫， 我老到無得生架喇。
[版主回覆03/20/2013 23:00:04]咁樣會好辛苦喎，同埋邊個湊BB呀？
你搞成點呀？
Your hubby needs to step up to the plate!
ReplyDeleteMy hubby used to like that, but he is a lot better nowadays!
Good luck!
[版主回覆03/21/2013 05:23:52]haha thanks....he's trying
我唔會比我老咁舒服...HAHA..
ReplyDelete陀同生都係我..點解佢可以咁舒服嘆
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[版主回覆03/23/2013 00:44:06]哈哈，無錯，男人點都要做D野
Married for 8 years, and Cole's about to turn 4 in June... I learn about: instead of "nagging" the hubby about what he doesn't do, just give him order (nicely and playful way). When he's doing something, compliment him... that usually works better and ask him to think of date nights or just even little time at home, just you and him. It's stress at the beginning but it will get better. My hub wants to be fair too, that works quite well for me, cos we share the load. Just talk to him calmly, and tell him you understand he's tired after work, and so does you... :-) Take a night off with your girlfriends... I know you probably will worry about lots of things with Hannah B, but trust me, sometimes we have to let go, in order for the man to step up! :-)
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/23/2013 00:43:43]I do worry about Hannah all the time but i guess they have their way to survive...they don't need me to sit next to them 24/7 to feed.... i really need to delegate work and make myself more stress free.
有壓力就易病放開心情等老公W0RRY吧
ReplyDelete[版主回覆03/23/2013 00:42:22]或者我真係應該stress free, 如果吾係命都短幾年
家家有本難念的經~~
ReplyDeleteMrs Wu, 講左出來會開心d, 我很願意聽你呻訴啊~~
[版主回覆03/23/2013 00:41:58]多謝你呀貓豬女
好彩有人比我呻下咋
其實訓得唔好真係咩都差一大截... 快d搞掂個枕頭啦!!
ReplyDelete至於爸爸就點都做唔到媽媽的細心同負責到底架啦, 不過都支持妳逼下老公盡量幫多d手呀
[Yan回覆03/23/2013 09:20:02]咁D痛可能同心理/stress都有關喎... 係啦, 叫老公做多D, 其實爸爸應該對阿女好d先係, 話哂上世情人~~
[版主回覆03/23/2013 00:41:17]吾知點解訓邊個枕頭都係咁，背脊位置都係酸痛...好煩！
佢而家點都再幫手啦，如果吾係遲下佢老婆變左zombie
男人係咁........完全唔明做媽媽既壓力，我老公都係咁話我。
ReplyDelete南瓜仔唔食奶又唔食糊，我都好唔開心，你仲要bb夜晚唔瞓，我都feel到你有幾辛苦，加油呀！！！
Mrs. Wu :
ReplyDelete妳呻完又無事, 呻完又再開工......呻呻吓好快就 Hannah 長大成人.....!!
呻訢接受, 做嘢照舊....各施其職, 遲些遊埠 !!
我唔係天秤座，不過我都覺得爸爸都要幫手湊女架！好彩你投訴完你老公都有幫手，因為我好多fd投訴極，個老公都淨係負責同bb玩唔幫手湊架
ReplyDelete呻完要開心番，唔好太影響到心情啦
Hello !第一次留言！睇到您這篇blob我都好有同感呀！近呢十日bb唔知係咪吽牙仔，好好心機煮好晒！都無心機食！又驚佢無營養、好想呢段時間快些過呀！做媽媽有時真係要比d時間自己relax下，那怕係落街或入房蛇一陣，如果唔係個人會好暴燥架！
ReplyDelete[版主回覆04/11/2013 05:16:46]做媽媽真係好多野煩，又怕佢呢樣個樣，其實好多時都係我地自己過份擔心。如果吽牙，可吾可以用teething gel呀？我見都好似舒緩到小小痛。吾好咁擔心啦，應該好快過。 我個女都無食三個星期solid, 而家咪都係咁。