琴日返去佢家人到食飯，突然間佢亞媽就問想唔想搬埋一齊住，即係買個三家庭，一個家庭一層，其實有好有壞。(with my brother-in-law)
好就係：
1）唔駛日日趕頭趕命煮飯，如果唔中意都可以自己煮
2）遲下有小朋友唔駛驚無人"秋", 都唔駛成日老遠搭車送小朋友去照顧
3）如果有咩事大家可以有個照應
4）小朋友可以成日見到cousin,有個朋友都好事
5）如果我租得出而家住緊個度，我就可以鬆動D，供樓都無咁辛苦
壞就係:
1）個個都知相見好同住難，我唔係咁容易相處架，雖然話就話唔係同一個門口入，但都有D擔心
2）錢銀上擔心煩，因為我老公數口唔精，如果比佢同佢細佬deal, 我怕我會比人take advantage,而佢細佬老婆係D好勢利既人，什麼都是一個字，錢，所以我唔想見到佢咁多
雖然唔知呢個機會有幾多，但都係要值得一諗架，因為講緊自己家庭既將來，點都要計劃好D
大家有咩意見？
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唔贊成同住.....睇blog都睇到好多相見好同住難既case....雖然美國屋企地方大好多.....唔會咁多正面衝突....但始終兩口子生活好處多d咁....有小朋友時先再考慮一齊住都未遲呢....
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/20/2011 21:26:00]嘩，個個都唔贊成同住，咁即係我無地方搬啦。我又覺得佢地好似好興致勃勃，而家成盆冷水倒過去好似好衰咁
I am totally against the idea.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't get along with your SIL already, chances are you two won't get along when you live together.
What if you want to move out and they don't. Who is going to take over your portion of the house?
[版主回覆07/21/2011 03:31:00]thanks for your opinion...it's really complicated and really need to think thoroughly before we make any decision.
我舉腳反對！麻煩後悔一定跟住嚟
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/21/2011 03:30:00]有你既美腿反對，我相信呢個計劃應該唔可行啦，哈哈
I would not live together either... It's more like the ownership thing. When there is a three family house, then you and your husband won't feel that you own where you live... If you stay there, you might have to live by the rule. More people more conflict.
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/22/2011 02:04:00]ya....still debating.......not so easy!
It would be better to just move closer, but not in the same building, because when you find the right place (all of you like) and what if because of job reason you may want to move or you want to sell but others don't? Or which floor would you pick?! What if both of you want the 1st floor?! All those causing more conflicts than good points. I totally understand living closer is good (especially when you have baby), but then it will cause parenting issue and more. The thing is, if you decided not to move in, you should let your hub to express the decision to them, otherwise they may think you're the one who disagree.
ReplyDelete[版主回覆07/25/2011 22:12:00]ya..i don't mind moving closer so at least there is no conflict but they keep persuading us to buy the house together. i don't know what the motive is...